Conversations Magazine's #BooksYouNeedtoRead Issue

Conversations Magazine's #BooksYouNeedtoRead Issue

Saturday, August 10, 2024

[To You, From Me] My Love Letter to Books and the Authors Who Write Them

  

Books have been a part of my life for as long as I can remember. 

As a child that was my favorite past-time, more so than playing with my toys or honestly with my friends. I have always felt a connection with the written word. Fiction and Non-fiction spoke to me in ways that few things were able to. It was no wonder, then, that I knew that being a writer was something I wanted to pursue as an adult, but nothing I ever dreamed could have prepared me for where we are now. 

This issue of Conversations Magazine is releasing as we celebrate 18 years sharing that love of books with you, the reader. You'll find interviews and features of both non-fiction and fiction for all ages, with the hope that you will find something that speaks to you and those around you.

The spotlight of the issue is my conversation with Cedric "The Entertainer". I had the chance to converse with him in 2023 with the launch of his book FLIPPING BOXCARS. The paperback edition debuts in September of this year, and this issue gives me the opportunity to introduce it to you. You'll also find my chat with bestselling authors Chanelle Coleman Wesley, LaQuita Parks, Fa'apepele Hunkin and otheres. 

As my brand expands there are some changes that are also coming your way. I have the privilege of working with amazing companies, entrepreneurs, authors and start-ups. Because of that it's important that I maintain the integrity of my relationships and keep the trust of my audience. What does this mean? Well, this is my official announcement to my audience that effective immediately I will no longer post written reviews on Amazon. Though I have always been honest in my reviews, I want to make sure with my audience that you know what I'm saying is the truth based on my experience, and not my relationships. Amazon has been a hub for my reviews for over 14 years, but moving forward you will only see my written reviews in the pages of this magazine, my blog and on other sites only. Video reviews will remain on the Amazon platform. 

For 18 years now it has been my pleasure to give you amazing interviews, features and introductions to people you are just discovering. My hope with this issue is to introduce you to authors you will want to get to know more about as well as stories that will move you to do SOMETHING in your life. Even if writing or reading don't seem to be for you, I believe you will find something in this issue that will connect on some level with your own creativity and purpose. 

Enjoy this love letter to books and the authors that write them.

Happy reading! 



Cyrus Webb, Editor-In-Chief of Conversations Magazine/

Mississippi Success Magazine

CHANELLE COLEMAN WESLEY: Helping Others While Remembering to Say YES to Herself


by Cyrus Webb

Through her tenacity, humility and grit, motivational speaker/bestselling author Chanelle Coleman Wesley is literally changing the world one person at a time.

She's a fighter, an influencer in her community and a walking example of faith in action. She is also someone who has realized her own value and worth and poured into others to remind them of the same. 

I was glad to have the opportunity to talk with her about the journey and advice for you. 

Chanelle, congratulations on the success you have had in your writing and speaking journey, as well as in life. What has it been like for you to reflect on the changes you’ve made in your life?

Cyrus, thanks so much for the opportunity to share space with you on this platform. I love this question. It’s been utterly amazing to see the doors that God has opened for me. There was a time when I was scared of my purpose. I wasn’t able to realize my dreams, because I was too busy living my fears. To see the strides I’ve been able to make within the last few years is mind-boggling. I’m especially humbled by the impact I’ve been able to make by way of these projects birthed on the She Said Yes to Herself Unapologetically platform; however, I can’t help but wonder what my life would’ve been like if I had lived  this way earlier in life. 

 Saying YES to yourself sounds like it would be an easy thing. When did you realize it was important to put yourself first?

As women we are nurturers by design. The capacity to be givers is intrinsically infused within us. We also have the examples of our mothers, grandmothers, aunts, sisters, women in our communities, and women within the church who all paint a powerful demonstration of being selfless. The problem arises when we serve others extravagantly while simultaneously failing to serve ourselves in the same fashion.

 Most times we’re running off of empty cups. The first time I heard a flight attendant say, “If the oxygen levels drop in the cabin the oxygen masks will be released from its compartment, put your oxygen mask on first, then assist others…” I instantly thought, “How cruel! Why would I put my mask on first when there are people around me who may need my help?”  I heard this saying in my youth but It wasn’t until much later that I truly processed what she was saying. Now, I have a better understanding. If I fail to put my mask on first, I won’t be in a position to help others or myself. I’ve learned to become intentional about loving on me. Ensuring I have what I need to be healthy, happy and whole. What’s in my cup is undoubtedly for me. My gift to others is the overflow. 


Your faith also plays a large role in your work. How has faith been strengthened as you evaluate, change and grow?

I was raised in the Christian faith. As a child I was heavily influenced by my mother’s godly example, her penchant for storytelling, and her strong sense of faith. But as I lived this multi-complex experience called life, I’ve learned through the joys and pains of life that a superficial connection with Christ just won’t do. Life will require you to know Him for yourself. Looking at my personal journey and how I  battled thoughts of suicide after the death of my daughter, just a short while ago, I can truly say that I’m here today because of two things: God’s gift to me (my surviving children), and intercessory prayer.

 When I couldn’t pray for myself I had a network of people covering me in prayer. I’m alive walking boldly in my purpose. I’m going through doors that the Most High Himself has opened for me. He has added to me connections that have blessed me both professionally and personally. I’m operating in my calling. Great is His faithfulness. 

What has it been like to connect with other like-minded women who appreciate your vision and want to be a part of it?

It's wonderfully amazing. I’m both honored and humbled to be among this dynamic tribe of women of faith. I will always be eternally grateful for the connections and collaborations we’ve built. 

What advice would you give to other women about sharing their own truth with the world?

Are you sitting on your skill sets, vision, passion, or purpose? Have you given your fears permission to cancel your calling? If you’re waiting for your fears to be removed before you start sharing your message, you’ll never get off the sidelines. Do it scared. If your dreams don’t have your stomach doing somersaults, knees shaking, and heart racing then you aren’t dreaming big enough. 

 Thanks again for the time, Chanelle. How can our readers stay connected with you? 

Cyrus, it’s always a pleasure to talk with you. Thanks again for sharing space with me on this platform. I’d love for readers to connect with me on social media, and my email is shesaidyestoherself@gmail.com. 

[SPECIAL] The Long Journey by Tina Siemens


  In 1922, my ancestors left Canada. Some 5,000 Mennonites left for Mexico in six long trains, bringing with them animals, furniture, tools, and grain. The journey ended at a massive piece of land in the Bustillos Valley near CuauhtĂ©moc. Like the countries before, the President of Mexico signed a document guaranteeing Mennonites religious freedom and our own monetary system. For us, being left alone in our sealed society was as close to heaven on Earth as we could get.

Or was it?

It took many years to turn the rocky desert into a land that could sustain us. Starvation and death were ever-present. Eventually, we turned a corner. But this was a hard place. Success meant not going hungry. There was little money for extravagances, which was perfect because the church leaders said that suffering brings us closer to God.

Over the years, the population exploded. Forbidden the use of birth control, many women had twelve to eighteen children.

With more living children came more adult marriages. This brought more children. Soon, we needed more land. Unfortunately, the local citizens weren’t selling any. And the government wasn’t willing to sell more land either. This led to friction between the Mexicans and Mennonites. For us, our entire life was in this land. We had little savings. Something had to give.

One man saw a different way out of all this: escape. His name was Jacob Rempel—my great-grandfather. He silently questioned everything, including the thin educational system we attended.
Jacob knew he lacked knowledge. The Mennonites had no way of understanding the outside world or negotiating complex contracts. Instead, we shook hands and hoped for the best. Yet Jacob was determined.

When his first grandson was born, Jacob secretly lifted David, the newborn, to his lips and whispered, “You will leave this place. I will help you find a way.”

Yet leaving a Mennonite colony is not easy.

First, family ties are strong. Pressure from relatives intensifies as soon as they catch wind of any discontent. If a family ever returns, they face a rough life of isolation and disdain. Excommunication is always a possibility.

Next, raising the money to leave is almost impossible. Every penny goes into food, clothing, or shelter. The only way to raise a large sum is to sell everything. Yet this move tips off the relatives and colony. And that triggers the pressure.

Finally, where can isolated Low German-speaking Mennonites go? To another Mennonite colony? Or brave the big wide world and try an Englander city?

So many hurdles, yet Jacob pushed his grandson hard. Finally, in 1974, David Rempel decided he and his family had to leave.

They tried Paraguay, but were rejected by the Mennonites living there. Then they went to Canada, but their guide threw away the citizenship application papers at the airport. They had to leave the country after six months.

Back in Mexico, David tried to rebuild his savings. He next targeted another place—Seminole, Texas. Mennonites bought tractors and parts from dealers there. A few Mennonites had even traveled to the town. David decided to check it out himself.

When he returned to Mexico, he was full of incredible stories. The clothes washed and dried themselves in magical machines. And the country was so wealthy, the citizens built small houses for their dogs. David couldn’t stop gushing about this land of milk and honey. He just had to find a way to escape to Seminole.

In 1976, David learned that U.S. citizenship was guaranteed to anyone who owned at least one acre of land. It wasn’t long before he and several men put together a large group to buy a tract of land in Seminole. They raised a staggering $295,000. This was enough to make a down payment on 1,200 acres. Suddenly, hundreds of Mennonites were leaving Mexico, each one owning at least one acre of land. After all these years of failure, David finally saw a way out.

In early 1977, a large mass of people reached the U.S. border excited about their new home. Yet they soon discovered that the lawyer with their papers wasn’t there to meet them. For five long days, the Mennonite men stood vigil in and around the immigration center while their families stayed at a cheap motel in Juarez.

On the last day, near closing time, one of the border agents found a way to communicate. David explained the situation. He had several chances to lie. But he decided that the truth was more important. If he told the truth and couldn’t get into the country, then he could still live with a conscience.

The agent miraculously decided to grant a six-month visitor’s visa. They would have 180 days to sort out their problems.

As they crossed the border, David was both excited and scared. When he crested a rise and showed his family the lights of Seminole, he told them in a voice dripping with emotion, “We’re home. Now, we’re home!”

But could they stay?

The Mennonites who came with David pooled their funds to hire the best legal talent. Yet the lawyer they hired needed money all the time.

And there was the land. Because they lacked an understanding of the ways of the world, they had not obtained water rights. Planting crops in a desert without water was a foolish proposition. The real estate agent who handled the transaction assured everyone that the Mennonites had understood they weren’t getting the water rights when they signed the complicated papers in English. And the same agent promised that he never told them owning one acre granted automatic citizenship, which turned out to be false. Acreage has nothing to do with citizenship.

Seeing his money drain from his pockets, David needed a job. Speaking Low German was not an asset when seeking employment in West Texas. But somehow, God smiled on David, granting him both a day and night job.

He made money by wading into a small lake of raw sewage and setting pipes. The idea was to capture the dirty water and use it for irrigating cotton fields. He also found work hoeing weeds in the hot Texas sun—not for himself, but his three young children. Even though they should’ve been in school, the family needed the money. Each dawn, young Tina Rempel, along with her older brother David and sister Elizabeth, trudged out to the fields for ten solid hours of hoeing endless rows of cotton.

When it was time to get paid, their father collected the wages. They understood.

As the seasons changed, Border Patrol buses arrived to collect the Mennonites and send them back to Mexico. This would mean forfeiture of their land. And there was a second group of Mennonites. They had come from Canada and plunked down $445,000 for 6,400 acres just outside Seminole. Once again, water rights were not provided. All these religious people would be deported, kissing their hard-earned money goodbye.

One man saw this up close: Mayor Bob Clark. Each day, he watched the Mennonites gather around the real estate agent’s office. He decided to investigate.

After learning all he could about the situation, he contacted a very important person in our nation’s capital named George H. Mahon. As the chairman of the Ways and Means Committee, he was the point man for spending any of the government’s money. And his district just happened to include Seminole, Texas.

Eventually, the press got wind of this story. Seemingly overnight, reporters and cameramen combed the streets, interviewing witnesses and probing every detail.

One fact they uncovered was the Mennonites’ refusal to accept charity. Even the tiny church they set up, which by law could avoid paying property taxes, didn’t take advantage of this welcoming land. Instead, the Mennonites prayed to God for help. And it came in the form of one photo.

There they were—eight-year-old girls sitting on benches, leaning forward over a slab of wood, praying to God for help. With their blonde hair braided over their shoulders and blue eyes peering over tented hands, this image exploded off the front pages of the country’s major newspapers. When Americans read how the Mennonites simply wanted to worship God, work hard, and be left alone, and how they had been ripped off in the land deals, their outrage spread to senators and congressmen. It was overwhelming.

Both Senators from Texas—Tower and Bentsen—sprung into action. With Mayor Clark holding a local vigil, guiding the press as they snapped more photos for the continuing string of news articles, the Mennonites’ prospects looked good. But then their visas ran out. They would have to leave.
Once again, God would provide a miracle. They received an extension on the deportation date.
On October 19, 1980, after many long years of this uncertain existence, both houses passed a private law, 96-63, granting a pathway to citizenship to more than 500 Mennonites. Each person’s name was meticulously spelled out in the bill. When President Jimmy Carter signed it, the Mennonites were granted green cards.

Five years after this monumental event, I stood next to David Rempel, my father, as we were sworn in as U.S. citizens. Never would there be a group of more grateful immigrants.

Since that time, the ranks of the Texas Mennonites have expanded. God blessed them and their desert land. The land has produced an abundance. So much that Gaines County has been continually labeled number one or close to it as the most productive county in the U.S. And not a day goes by that I don’t find a way to thank this great country for taking me in.

John Siemens, my husband, and I have built a thriving construction business out of nothing. It’s another blessing from God.

Once I was able to catch my breath, I sat down and wrote a book about this story. Like the barren land we cultivated, God has blessed the book too. Even President Jimmy Carter, a former farmer himself, recently found time between hospital stays to pose with me and my book. On November 3, 2019, I was invited to be the guest at President Jimmy Carter’s home church services.From his passage of the bill granting us citizenship to making time for me at his church, for some reason, he loves the Mennonites. As of this writing, it was the last time he taught the Sunday School lesson himself.

Decades later, Jacob’s great-granddaughter, Tina Siemens, records the story of her family’s journey from country to country in a sweeping tale of determination and faith. The book is Seminole: Some People Never Give Up. It is available on Amazon for purchase. You can also visit www.seminolethebook.com

AUTHOR SPOTLIGHT: Lakeasha Williams, author of SHINE ON BROWN GIRL


by Cyrus Webb

Lakeasha, we are glad to have you as part of our Books You Need to Read campaign. When did you realize the power of books for yourself?

Thank you so much for having me. I first realized the power of books in elementary school. I absolutely loved to read. I think for me it represented a different way of being. I enjoyed getting to see a different way of living life. I would become immersed in the books that I read and imagined myself as some of the characters. 

As an author, what has it been like to share that power with your own readers?

As an author, I write for young readers to know that their stories are just as important as others. My focus is on culturally diverse books with stories that mirror the lives of our children. When I was a child I never read a book with characters like me or who share similar stories. I think it’s important for young readers to see themselves in books. Representation matters. 

I also write for adults as well. Similarly I want adults to know that their journey is just as important as others. I believe in supporting the process of growth and transformation to mitigate feelings of hopelessness and despair. My adult books thus far are focused on perseverance, resilience, and leadership development.

Your debut children’s book is called SHINE ON BROWN GIRL. What inspired it?

I did a poem with the black and brown girls in my school titled, Brown Girl Brown Girl, which was an ode to the election of VP Kamala Harris. That video went viral for two main reasons. Millions felt that I was indoctrinating the children, were comparing me to Hitler, said I should be fired, and even sent me death threats. However, there were millions of people who were inspired, applauded our efforts to focus on culturally responsive education, and knew that representation mattered. My girls and entire school community were excited to be recognized for our school improvement efforts. I knew that I needed to do more to represent diversity and inclusion for our children.  After already experiencing success with my first book, Still I Thrive, I decided my second book would be my first children’s book honoring my black and brown girls. Hence, Shine On Brown Girl was born. 

We should let our readers know it’s more than just a book. It’s a rallying call for individuals of all ages and races. What has it been like for you to share that message of knowing yourself?

This has been a transformative experience for me. It is critical for everyone to know that it is only when we can understand and empathize with other people’s human experiences that we can focus on making this world equitable for all. When oppressed children know who they are it allows them to achieve their highest potential.

Tell us about your own journey of self-discovery, Lakeasha. When did you start realizing your own worth and value?

I think my upbringing gave me my sense of worth and value from a very young age. My parents often spoke with us about current events so I was aware of the inequities that existed in the world and my community. But my parents also gave me hope. They wanted a different life for their children, and so I always knew that there was another way of being. Although society will tell poor black and brown children something different, I knew better. 


One thing we haven’t talked about before is the way your children motivate you. On social media we have seen you all travel together, even overseas. What has it been like to have their support and share this journey with them?

My children, two adult men now (laughs), give me absolute JOY. Motherhood means more to me than any accomplishment could ever. I coined the phrase, we went from ABCs and 123s to college degrees and LLCs. I literally gave birth to my business partners. My sons inspire me to do better. We’ve been a team, The Dream Team, forever and we’ll continue to support each other in all aspects of life. 

What message would you have for aspiring authors when it comes to knowing who they are and sharing that with others?

No one gets to define you. You define you. All stories matter. You have a story to tell that someone needs to hear. Embrace all seasons of your life because there’s lessons to be learned during your winter, spring, summer, and fall. Continue to network and form partnerships with like minded individuals because that will determine your impact and net worth. 

Great catching up again, Lakeasha. How can readers stay connected with you? 

Thank you so much for always being so supportive. Readers can stay connected with me in the following ways:

Website: www.brickhouseunlimited.com

Email: info@brickhouseunlimited.com 

Instagram: coach_shineonlakeasha 

Linkedln: http://linkedin.com/in/lakeasha-williams-019a7415

[BOOK REVIEW] Author Tracie O'Neil Horton tackles the complexities of humanity with K3

by Cyrus Webb

In 2024 this book that was released in 2018 is just as relevant and appealing today as it was when I initially read it. 

I went into the novel that is K3 (The Divided States of America) not really knowing what to expect, but by the end I was amazed as to how much author Tracie O'Neil Horton was able to pack into her debut. 

It's not a small book by any means, but it grabs the reader and takes you through what seems like a mini-series in written form that allows us to see how quickly life can change, and how there will always be those who fight for what they believe in, right or wrong.

Without giving too much away I'll say this: K3 takes us into a cast of characters not too different from the world we live in that are dealing with serious issues and will either find ways to co-exist or CEASING to exist. Standouts like "Mike" are sure to have the reader finding those within the pages of K3 that they can root for or see themselves in. Just as in life, however, not all motives are clear in the saga as it unfolds. The book really does show the importance of not giving up doing what you believe to be right---even when the odds seem stacked against you.

Showing both the darkness and the light that is the human experience, K3 is a book worth reading and discussing. It definitely won't be easily forgotten. 

Get your copy of K3 on Amazon

[BOOK REVIEW] In SHARE MY LIFE Kem gives a glimpse at the life behind the fame

by Cyrus Webb

 We have gotten to know Kem over the years for his great songs, but in SHARE MY LIFE he takes us behind the success to the struggles, highs and lows and road that led him where he is today.

Whether you're a fan of his music or someone who loves a great comeback story, this book will speak to you. I love the honesty, the way he talks about the dark places of his life that could have destroyed him and all he worked for---and how his faith helped to guide him to heights that few have known.

Probably the most powerful part of the book is how we are able to see how his appreciation for his success and place today is only possible because he recognizes how far God has brought him. By relying on his Creator and not on his own abilities, Kem is able to ascend to places that may have appeared impossible in the past.

Revealing and inspiring, SHARE MY LIFE is the kind of book you need to read to remind you of what is possible. That way we can learn as Kem did that the best is yet to come. 

Get yoru copy of SHARE MY LIFE on Amazon

Friday, August 9, 2024

[BOOK REVIEW] Bill Bellamy's TOP BILLIN' shows what helped him get to the top and stay there today

by Cyrus Webb 


When you hear the name Bill Bellamy we all have our favorite movie or tv show that he has appeared in. You might also have caught him on stage. In TOP BILLIN' we are able to get a look at the man: how he became who he is, what helped him believe in his gift and what it's been like to learn lessons along the way.

It wasn't always an easy path for the talented entertainer. He shares his struggles and what it's been like to define himself in his career and in life. He also gives us a glimpse at his personal side, navigating relationships and fatherhood. 

This is the kind of book that is sure to inspire and motivate the reader, regardless of your career. TOP BILLIN' gives us a deep dive into the man that has made us laugh over the years----sharing what it takes to get to the top and stay there. 

Get your copy of TOP BILLIN' on Amazon


[Book Review] FLIPPING BOXCARS by Cedric Kyles aka Cedric "The Entertainer" is a must read!

 
by Cyrus Webb

This book is so much more than I could have expected. 

We all know Cedric "The Entertainer" as someone who is able to make us laugh and enjoy ourselves. Now he brings his talents to his first novel FLIPPING BOXCARS. Released in hardcover in September 2023, the paperback released in September 2024 with a new cover. 

In it we meet Floyd "Babe" Boyce, someone who is able to make us root for him even though all his decisions might not be above board. We're able to look under the hood and get to see the man for who he is, what makes him tick and more importantly his why in life.

What happens, though, when all he has and wants is threatened? Will he double down or fold? That is what the reader will discover as you race through the pages. 

There are many surprises that come along the way, from the memorable characters to the situations that allow us to see Babe in his element, operating in confidence while always wanting more for himself and those he loves. 

What readers are left with is an entertaining read by someone who knows how to entertain. FLIPPING BOXCARS by Cedric Kyles aka Cedric "The Entertainer" is a must read. 

Get your copy of FLIPPING BOXCARS on Amazon



[BOOK REVIEW] With ADVERSITY FOR SALE Jeezy shares the cost due for what you want in life

 

by Cyrus Webb

For those looking for success tips from a proven winner then Adversity for Sale by Jeezy is a book you need to read. 

The book released in 2023 and is STILL an Amazon bestseller today, showing that it is resonating with readers and for good reason.

Jeezy is able to share not just the lessons learned but the way he has used his adversities in life as fuel for the life he wanted for himself. We're able to see not just the determination but the willingness to go for it even when it seems the odds are against him. 

A few takeaways: 1) Sometimes you have to step out of a situation to get a look at the bigger picture. 2)  Not everyone can come along on the journey with you. To reach where you are meant to go, you have to sometimes let something go in the process. 3) Know your strengths. For Jeezy his clarity of vision and purpose have been his superpower. Find yours, and there's nothing you can't do.

Adversity for Sale is a book that will remind you of what's possible, while urging you to take the risks needed to push forward towards your inner greatness. 

Get ADVERSITY FOR SALE on Amazon

[BOOK REVIEW] For those discriminated against in the workplace, Tanya White uses her voice for change

 For those who have felt like giving their best isn't enough in the workplace or that their accomplishments aren't being seen, Tanya White's book PROFESSIONALLY LYNCHED will speak to you on a deep level.

The book is more than just about dealing with discrimination in the workplace. It's also about being made to feel worthless and unseen in a space where you know you belong. I love her honesty and the way she shares the different things that occurred. I also love that she made it bigger than just herself, realizing that others were finding themselves in similar situations. 

Taking her own personal account and mixing it with history and what others were doing to fight discrimination, Tanya leaves a path forward for others who find themselves in similar situations. She also gives you the resources not just for yourself but for those you see having to walk in her shoes. 

PROFESSIONALLY LYNCHED is Tanya White using her voice to create change in the workplace and encouraging others to do the same. 

Get your copy on Amazon

[BOOK REVIEW] In ALREADY BROKEN author Vern Hamil shows healing is possible if you're willing to do the work


 We are so blessed that we don't have to look like what we've been through. That means that regardless of our past or the things that have happened to us, we can make the choice to move forward and become the person we were created to be.

For Vern Hamil there were many things that happened over the years that could have forced her to stay in her brokenness. In the book ALREADY BROKEN she gives us a glimpse into the situations she has faced, the trauma that has come her way and the mistakes that could have defined her. In the end she was able to remember that healing and moving forward are possible, if she was willing to do the work.

ALREADY BROKEN allows us to acknowledge all that we have been through while remembering that life is not over. If we stay close to our faith and the promises God has made for us, there is no way that healing will not be ours. 

Get your copy of ALREADY BROKEN on Amazon


[BOOK REVIEW] With Heart of a Warrior author Pele Hunkin shares her pain, her courage and resilience

 by Cyrus Webb

Life can have many challenges. What matters is what we do when they come our way. Will they cause us to give up or will we find the strength to keep going?

In HEART OF A WARRIOR author Pele Hunkin shares her journey, full of highs and lows---and what has helped her to not just survive but thrive. 

She talks about the loss of loved ones, the loss of relationships and the rediscovering of her faith. Through her challenges she is able to learn lessons that also speak to us, giving us exactly what we need when the chips are down.

Pele writes this in the book: "Know that you are more than enough and more than a conqueror. I want to encourage anyone going through any life challenges to be grateful for the experience. Understand that the choice is yours to be better and not bitter with what life is throwing at you. When you look for the positive in any situation, God will offer it to you in abundance."

HEART OF A WARRIOR is the kind of book that will motivate you during the down times and allow you to see that regardless of what comes your way or what others think, you can achieve things that might appear impossible.

Get your copy on Amazon

LaQuita Parks: Helping Herself and Others Turn Pain Into Purpose


by Cyrus Webb

LaQuita Parks is one of those forces in the world who has learned the power of words for herself and is using her platform to share the stories of others. Outside of being a bestselling author and publisher, she is a living testament to the fact that what we are going through doesn't have to define us. 

Through every situation we can turn our pain into purpose and win. 

LaQuita, we are glad to have you as part of our #BooksYouNeedtoRead issue of Conversations. First of all, congratulations on your success. How does it feel to do what you love when it comes to writing and see the response to it? 

Thank you so much, Cyrus. To God be the glory! It feels amazing. I am completely humbled by it all, and I love it. It gives me great joy to see the reactions and receive the feedback when someone reads one of my books. I believe that everybody has a story and there’s someone waiting on the other end of my story so they can get healing from their story. When I became a #1 International Best-Selling Author, I was on cloud nine. My goal as a writer was never to win awards but to motivate and inspire. The rewards are simply and added blessing.

When did you realize the gift of writing for yourself? 

Honestly, I never thought about it as a gift. I believe writing is therapeutic and it has been the thing I’ve needed to help get me through some rough patches in my life. The last fifty years have been nothing short of a pain tsunami for me, so writing has helped me tremendously. It takes the focus off of me as an individual and puts it back on the reader who might be looking for that “something” extra to get them over their rough patch too. 

I guess instead of writing being a gift, I see it as more of a blessing given to me to help others. I believe that God has gifted me with the ability to reach people from all walks of life with my story. no matter the age. 

Thank you for sharing that. Was it an easy process to share what you were writing? 

No, not with my first book. I am a sharer by design. I have an amazing support circle of family and friends whom I have pretty much been able to share my writings with. I love it, because they don’t hesitate from giving me the “real” feedback. However, in 2016 when I wrote my first book “Walking Limitations” my true story of medical childhood trauma at the hands of a nurse, I was really nervous to share it with people outside of my family and friends. It was the first time I would share my story in detail, including pictures of my deformed leg after fifteen surgeries. I was a bit nervous because I didn’t know how my story would be received by my audience.

One thing you have been able to do is write for different audiences. Did you know that was something you wanted to do? 

Absolutely not! I think it was something I grew into because everybody can identify with pain. Even children know when they hurt. My story is unique and has given me the opportunity to connect with people on different platforms all over the world. If someone would have told me five years ago that I would be writing for different audiences on multiple platforms, I would not have believed them, because it was just not on my list of “to do’s!” 

Sometimes I still find it hard to believe that my writings have reached an international level. Who knew that my writings would be used to encourage people around the world. From my true story of my medical journey, my books of motivation and inspiration to my human-interest children’s books, and anthologies not to mention, my writings for my international platforms. I don’t take this blessing for granted and again I say to God be the glory!


Addressing difficult topics is something you have been able to do. What has given you the courage to do that in an ever-changing world?
 

Just before the world was forever changed with the pandemic, I had to spend some time at the Mayo Clinic. Four months later, at my last visit, and after all the test results were in, the doctor looked at me and said, "Although you are not dying, you are suffering!" You see, I have lived with chronic pain every day for the last 50 years of my life and no matter how rough it got, I never looked at is as suffering. So, when the doctor told me that I wasn't dying but I was suffering, it was necessary for me to process what all this meant. 

My processing period was when writing actually started my acceptance of my situation. It was the beginning of my healing. It gave me the courage to step out on faith and believe that if writing could heal me, it could also heal a world of others. There are so many people suffering through so many things and as a writer, we must have the courage to allow our stories to be messages that help heal.

Any advice you want to share with aspiring authors when it comes to pursuing their goals and dreams? 

Keep pushing and continue to be your authentic self. There are going to be people who will discourage you and tell you that you can’t simply because they didn’t, but don’t you dare quit. 

I want you to remember that 100% of everybody living and dead has a story, and there is always someone waiting on the other end of your story so they can get healing from their story. Nothing beats a failure but a try, so run your race. There is no way you can lose!

Thanks again, LaQuita. How can our readers stay connected with you? 

They can connect with me through my publishing website www.paprovipublishing.com or my email laquita@afailure2communicate.com. I can also be reached on social media. 

Fa'apepele (Pele) Hunkin: Showcasing the HEART OF A WARRIOR Daily

 

 
by Cyrus Webb

Life is going to have its ups and downs. No one is immuned from that, but what matters is how we choose to respond when things don't go our way or are out of our control. For Fa'apepele Hunkin, known to the world as Pele Inspire, she chooses to display what she called the heart of a warrior, and attack life head on. It doesn't mean every day is perfect, but it does mean she chooses to make the best of every opportunity that comes her way. 

Pele, first of all, congratulations on your amazing success and journey. What has it been like for you to reflect on all that has happened for you?

The experience has been great. It has been a true joy, and I am grateful for God's blessings in my life, especially after I published my first solo book, HEART OF A WARRIOR-The Humble Journey of a Samoan Warrior. I also co-authored several books, and I am blessed to be a best-selling author. In addition I'm grateful, humbled, and proud to be named the Ruby Girl of 2022. I love sharing the glory of God when telling my story while speaking virtually to various audiences worldwide and in the United States. 

I was honored to meet my mentor, the legendary motivator, Les Brown, who I affectionately call Papa Les. It has been an absolute honor and joy to be a featured author and a co-visionary author for the first time with Doctors John E. Gray and Angie Gray of Onyx Expressions. Also, being a part of their empowerment matters mission is life-changing and a blessing. I'm grateful to everyone in my life who make life worth living. I am grateful for it all. 

Does it seem like to you that the rewards you are seeing today are a direct result of the hard work you have put in over the years?

Yes, for the simple reason that my efforts are paying off. I work hard; I am dedicated; I am committed, and I love what I do. My entire life has brought me to this exact moment. I am blessed to share my story to share the glory of God because His love, mercy, and grace carried me this far in life. God's grace is sufficient for me. But the best part is that I used my challenges to improve myself. I'm grateful for each of my experiences, because they strengthened me and brought me closer to God. I'm not the same person since I left my beautiful island of Samoa in 1994. Thankfully, God helped me use my life's journey to grow and evolve into the warrior I am today. I persevered despite everything, and I've learned that quitting is never an option for me. 


In your book HEART OF A WARRIOR, just one of your bestsellers, you talk about the challenges you have experienced. How have those help to shape and strengthen you?

The challenges I faced helped shape and strengthen me tremendously in navigating my way through life, and it built my resilience. Growing up and knowing that I have the power and courage to overcome obstacles laid a solid foundation for success in my life. I've used my struggles as lessons, and I benefit from my mistakes in life. I've discovered amazing skills that boosted my well-being through life's challenges. I've pushed myself harder than hard when facing challenges and learned what I'm capable of doing. When I look back of how far God brought me through, all I can say is that I am incredibly proud of how I handled all the challenges that shaped and strengthened me daily. The challenges I've experienced blessed me with the ability to move forward and explore new opportunities and be a blessing to others.

You also write about purpose. How has identifying your purpose helped guide you and what you do?

Identifying my purpose helped me improve the quality of my life and blessed me to live a meaningful life. My life hasn't been the same since I identified and have a clear purpose in life. I knew my God given purpose was aligned with God's calling in my life when I acknowledged the importance of doing everything with love and with all of my heart. I believe that my goals, hopes, and dreams shaped my purpose in life. Identifying my purpose in life encouraged me to set more challenging goals for myself and enabled me to achieve the highest possible level of life enjoyment and satisfaction and what meaningful life is all about.

What message would you give to those who are looking at you as an example of what they can do in their lives?

I urge you to put all of your faith in you and God and let Him be the cornerstone of your life. If you feel trapped in life, I encourage you to rise to the new challenges that will allow you to grow. When faced with problems, push yourself as hard as you can, because it will help you realize your potential. 

You are strong and courageous enough to tackle any challenges. Always keep in mind that you should live each day to the utmost. It's time for you to employ all the abilities, skills, and resources that God has given you to become the extraordinary person you are called to be. Learn to be grateful for all the difficulties, hardships, and struggles you have endured. Please, learn to FLY-First Love Yourself to become the best version of yourself. 

Always do everything with love and from the heart! 

Thanks, Pele, for being such a bright light in the world. How can our readers stay connected with you? 

www.peleinspire.com

pelehunkin03@gmail.com

www.facebook.com/peleinspire

www.instagram.com/peleinspire